My family and I have Yahoo IM 9.0 on 3 seperate desktop computers AND the laptop I am using now. Our display images of ourselves wll never show up.

I have tried every possible setting, stealth settings, tried jpg, bmp. and png's. I am totally frustrated. One friend is constantly sharing new pics from a cell phoe and I can' get a one to show up.

This problem has been ongoing for almost a year now.
Considering switching messengers if someone suggests which one is really the best and working properly.
Help?!? Hecares