My AIM, Edit Options, Edit Preferences
Note:
[some text] will refer to the left side menu option within this screen and
{some text} will refer to the right side section you should be looking for.
1. [Privacy] {Who can contact me}
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Allow only users on my Buddy List
2. [Privacy] {Allow users to see...}
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Check all that you want...
About the typing indicator: Any user who has an IM open to your sn can tell when you are typing even if you never send them a message. For peace of mind if you have morons who truely bother you and you do not want to show that you are present at the computer right that second uncheck the 3rd option and click apply.
3. [Privacy] {Allow users who know my E-Mail address to find...}
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Nothing about me - (This is how you hide yourself from AIM's buggy "find-a-buddy by E-mail" feature. While buggy with AIM it works without fail in gaim and TestBuddy if you have not done this yet.)
4. [Sign On/Off] {Show AIM Today window at sign on}
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uncheck
5. [IM/Chat] {Block all incoming chat invitations}
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checkeded
6. [AIM/Expressions] {Show AIM expressions from others}
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unchecked - (For those who don't like people messing with the look of the IM and it also might prevent a virus if they put on in the theme)
7. [Buddy Icons] {For buddy icons set by others}
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Do not display their icons - (Another very small but paranoid setting)
8. [Away Message] {When away}
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Insert in personal profile ONLY! - (If your AIM client reponds to people who IM you while away they can warn you every time! After I got warned to 100% and could not sign on for a day I turned off the auto-response.)
9. [Stock Ticker] {Show stock ticker in Buddy List window}
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unchecked
10. [News Ticker] {Display ticker at sign on}
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unchecked
11. [File Sharing]
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Don't Allow for anyone... - (You can also set up group on the buddylist just for this. If someone asks if they can have a file you share simply click, hold down, and drag their name into the specific group. When done you can simply drag it out of the group.
12. [File Transfer] {Recieve File Permission}
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Reject from all users -
-> Add your firewall and virus scanner settings if you want
13. [Direct IM]
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Don't allow
14. [Send Buddy List] {When others send buddy list}
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Don't Allow
15. [Talk] {When others want to talk to you}
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Don't Allow
16. [Add-Ins] {When others send an Add-In Invitations}
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Don't allow -