Subscribe: Subscribe to BigBlueBallRSSSubscribe to BigBlueBall by emailEmailSubscribe to BigBlueBallTwitter


Go Back   BigBlueBall Forums > Community Center > Instant Messaging in the Real World
Forgot Password? Register
Connect with Facebook

Reply
 
LinkBack Topic Tools
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 04-27-2007, 02:53 PM
Junior Member
 

Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 3
bill1001 is on a distinguished road (10)
Send a message via AIM to bill1001
Is IM better than email?

Do you prefer instant messaging to email? Is IM sometimes --or always-- better than email? Are there times when you only want to communicate by IM, and won't by email?

What, in your opinion, are the advantages of IM over email, if any?

I'm writing an article about why instant messaging is sometimes better than email, and would appreciate hearing from the IM pros, fans and just plain users on BigBlueBall.

--Bill Adler
Reply With Quote
 

 
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 04-27-2007, 04:23 PM
Tigerblade's Avatar
the infiniteth monkey with the infiniteth typewriter
 

Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Terra, Sol System
Posts: 3,862
Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)Tigerblade has left a lasting impression (500)
I prefer IM when I'm talking to friends -- it's quicker, easier, and more informal. I prefer email when it comes to business, employers, etc. Email lets you say more at a time, and lets you look over your words before sending. It gives you a longer chance at making sure you're saying what you want to say. Granted, you can do the same over IM, but with IM you're expected to respond much quicker.

As I was going down the stair, I met a man who wasn't there.
He wasn't there again today; I wish I wish he'd go away.
[ twitter: @tigerblade ] [ forum guidelines | posting policy | please search first ]

Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 04-27-2007, 06:47 PM
PolarBearNPR's Avatar
Just one of the gang
 

Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 1,356
PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)PolarBearNPR has much to be proud of (1000)
Send a message via AIM to PolarBearNPR Send a message via MSN to PolarBearNPR Send a message via Yahoo to PolarBearNPR Send a message via Skype™ to PolarBearNPR
For back and forth banter, IM is certainly the way to go. For longer, informational business or other important missives, email is the way to go. I have had emails that may as well be IMs - same format, frequency, content, but the person on the other end doesn't IM. I know - hard to imagine! I find that I can't write a "good" email while IMing because the grammar, some spellings, and language are just different and one creeps into the other and before I know it - bleh - neither one communicates the way I want it to.

Also - I think folks who like paper mail, e.g. grandparents, enjoy the email with it's "Dear Gramma", indentions, and "Love you" components which are familiar to them.

Texting or SMSing is also another quick way to communicate - dunno if you want to include that in your article as well.

If you have specific questions or want to set up a poll - this is a great place to do just that! Exactly the type of stuff we love to see around here.

And by the way . . . I'd love to see your conclusions! When you get it written, if you wouldn't mind, it would be great to post here in a featured section.

"We will be known forever by the tracks we leave." ~ Native American proverb
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 04-29-2007, 09:32 PM
MrOats's Avatar
Global Moderator
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: New York, USA
Posts: 1,479
MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)MrOats has left a lasting impression (500)
Send a message via AIM to MrOats Send a message via MSN to MrOats Send a message via Yahoo to MrOats
Quote:
Originally Posted by TigerBlade
I prefer IM when I'm talking to friends -- it's quicker, easier, and more informal. I prefer email when it comes to business, employers, etc.
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBear
For back and forth banter, IM is certainly the way to go. For longer, informational business or other important missives, email is the way to go.
Agreed. IM is the reason why I am such a quick typer these days!

Energy follows thought. Do not give your precious energy to a dying past. Face the brilliance of your most wonderful creations. Dwell on your dreams.
Facebook

Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 04-29-2007, 10:55 PM
Philip's Avatar
WLM Guy
 

Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Penang, Malaysia
Posts: 1,748
Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)Philip has much to be proud of (1000)
Send a message via MSN to Philip Send a message via Yahoo to Philip
I have to agree with you guys. IM is in real-time, which is great, especially when chatting with friends. But I would NEVER entertain the idea of IMing with my boss. Hee Hee.

Email is great for more formal communication, and especially for older folks who strangely, don't take to IM as much as they do with email. But God bless whoever created these two great communication aids. I would probably be stuck without them!

P/S Bill, I'm still waiting for your poll....
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 10-17-2008, 03:37 AM
Chris Bale's Avatar
Junior Member
 

Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: USA
Posts: 25
Chris Bale is on a distinguished road (10)
Send a message via MSN to Chris Bale
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tigerblade View Post
I prefer IM when I'm talking to friends -- it's quicker, easier, and more informal. I prefer email when it comes to business, employers, etc. Email lets you say more at a time, and lets you look over your words before sending. It gives you a longer chance at making sure you're saying what you want to say. Granted, you can do the same over IM, but with IM you're expected to respond much quicker.
Agreed.IM is better for talking with friends,and email is better for business.BUT most time people like to use IM.
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 10-17-2008, 04:43 AM
Hello, World!
 

Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Islamabad - Pakistan
Posts: 339
Hasan has a spectacular aura about (100)Hasan has a spectacular aura about (100)
Email
-- Slow
-- Formal
-- Message (1-way)
-- Detailed and formatted

IM
-- Fast
-- Casual
-- Conversation (2-way)
-- Short and plain text

This is how I chose which medium to choose.
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 10-18-2008, 12:22 AM
Jeff's Avatar
Administrator
 

Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: San Clemente, CA, USA
Posts: 9,160
Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)Jeff has left a lasting impression (500)
Send a message via ICQ to Jeff Send a message via AIM to Jeff Send a message via MSN to Jeff Send a message via Yahoo to Jeff Send a message via Skype™ to Jeff
Hey Hasan! Great to hear from you!

One of my colleagues in the KM world works for IBM, and the New York Times actually wrote a story about him because he's given up email. He uses Twitter, IM and other tools to collaborate.
Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 06-03-2009, 10:17 PM
kelseyc's Avatar
Member
 

Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Kansas City Area
Posts: 65
kelseyc is on a distinguished road (10)
Send a message via AIM to kelseyc
I really like using IM better, because I hate taking the time to write an email or pick of the phone to do something. With IM, I can ask my question or let the person know something, and then the convo is done!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Topic: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Topic Tools


Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Anyone tried Messenger Plus 2.0? Jeff Windows Live Messenger Support 26 03-13-2006 04:34 PM
aim hacked -- email lookup? Dopesick AIM Support 3 08-08-2005 09:46 AM
Gilly Messenger 3.0 (Beta) Released Hasan Other Instant Messengers 5 07-18-2005 02:06 PM
Thread replies - email notification problems Jon8RFC Forum Support 0 05-31-2005 10:23 AM
if anyone gets a yahoo email or a file to download flyinghighnow Yahoo! Messenger Support 0 03-09-2004 06:25 PM

 

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:13 AM.