How do I find out if a person ignores me ?

[ytd]

Hello everyone.

I need to discover / understand something very important for me.
I have added an yahoo account in my messenger list on my both accounts.

I have two different accounts with different names.

My 1st account
My 2nd account

I added with my 1st account and 2nd account the person xxxx.
I attached a *.jpeg image to clear things out.

After you guys read what's in the *.jpeg picture, please read below:

Or there's a... idk... fourth situation ? I didn't count them.
The xxxx person could have me ignored me before my add request, and after I send the add request from my 1st account, he didn't get the pop up message that I want to add him, 'cause he had me on ignore list and let's say that after I send the add request, he removed my from his ignore list (and that's why explains that I still remain with add request pending and explains why I got the add request back from the xxxx person on my 1st account).

And ofc, I allowed him (the xxxx person) to add my both accounts (1st account and 2nd account).

But again, there's another thing, In that time that the xxxx person added me I couldn't be in his ignore list, 'cause the program dosen't let someone to add a person who is on his ignore list. But again, there are many ways that he could of add me, and idk the correct one. And I will say once again, my goal is to know if that person ignored me on my 1st account or not.

I deleted the xxxx person from my 1st account and add it back, and I still get the add request peding, but the person logs once a month, or even more...
Isn't suppose to be a message that if I am in the xxxx's ignore list, after I add the person xxxx the yahoo server to tell me that I can't add that person because I am in his ignore list ? Isn't suppose to be a message like that, or isn't there a way to find out ? I just did that test with other accounts and even if I add the person xxxx while I am in his ignore list, I still get the add request pending, but I don't get any message like for example I can't add that person because whether I am in his ignore list, or the server dosen't let me add that person.

I know that for some of you this problem may sound more than a little bit wierd, or stupid you guys could say, but for me it's a huge interrest because that person is my love and I could do everything I have in my power to be with her.

And excuse me for my bad english, it's not my first language nor my second, but i'm trying to learn it more and more.

Thank you in advance.

[patndoris]

There is no way in Yahoo to know if you are on someone's ignore list or if they are appearing offlne to you.

Trying to find this out is an invasion of privacy.

[ytd]

Originally Posted by patndoris

There is no way in Yahoo to know if you are on someone's ignore list or if they are appearing offlne to you.

Trying to find this out is an invasion of privacy.

WHAT ? Ofc there's a way, I just said that in my first post, didn't you read above all that I said ?
And... WHAT? Ofc I can see if a person appears offline only to me, there are loads of programs that can do that.

God damn, I thought this is a good support, fssss... neaah... I don't need help from you guys, you're so stupid.

Good night !

[patndoris]

didn't you read above all that I said ?

I sure tried to but it was very confusing & difficult to understand. I finally decided to go with the title of your post "How do I find out if a person ignores me?"

Sure, there are lots of programs/sites which will attempt to do it. Most of which are more than likely going to drop malware onto your machine, and which are unreliable.

Yes, you can "figure it out" by getting yourself onto someone's contact list under two different ID's and then seeing if that contact appears the same to you on both of your ID's. There are certainly sneaky ways to make the deduction that you are being ignored.

However, there are times that invites get lost and never show up on the other person's end. There are times that a person's status does not show correctly due to server issues. There are times people just don't feel like talking. And sometimes people just don't log in. There are also times that people are accidentally deleted or ignored and the other person doesn't even realize something has changed. Often an email to the person to ask what's going on is enough to clear up any confusion and either answer the question or re-establish the connection.

The point is really that most people expect that when they use settings to ensure privacy that they will have it. They don't want other people snooping around to figure out if they are or aren't ignoring them or whether they've been deleted.

[Ven0m]

Yeah, doesn't work.